The Aged Male

Here’s some tips for those thinking about popping the question. Mainly for younger men, but some of us old geezers could use these tips too!

Are you are feeling like it might be time to pop the “big question”, but looking for a little guidance as to the process of making it as spectacular as it deserves to be? Perhaps this guide can be a good way to get you started on the road to marital bliss.

To begin with, it is of utmost importance to get an idea of your partner’s general feelings regarding marriage and how she would potentially feel about making that commitment with you. This should be done prior to even considering asking her hand in marriage. In addition, if her relationship with her family is very strong then you would be wise to either casually discuss the idea or even formally ask for their support of your intentions. Once you feel you have the “all clear” then you are ready to formulate the perfect proposal.

Some essential components of such a proposal generally include the following.

1. Creativity
If you want her to know you really care, it is wise to really dazzle her with a creative proposal that will satisfy her conceptual dreams and not leave her hoping for more. Remember that she could have been imagining this day since she was a small child, so go out of your way to do something that will astound her. The focus should primarily be on creativity, rather than just showing her how much money you can spend. More often than not, the most successful proposals are actually not so monetarily expensive.

2. Location
Location, location, location…it is obvious how important the right setting can be. This should be someplace meaningful to both of you. The best proposals are based on the careful romantic attention to your relationship thus far. Surprisingly enough, the right place doesn’t need to cost a fortune. It can be somewhere in nature or even in the bedroom. Contrary to popular belief, public arenas should generally be avoided as the success rate is apparently lower in crowded and noisy places. Intimacy is key. This is about the two of you, not the rest of the world.

3. Surprise
Even if she is suspicious that you might be planning something special, an utterly flooring surprise is still completely possible. Amaze her when and/or how she least expects it. In combination with creativity and location, the right timing can turn a good proposal into a great proposal.

4. Sincerity
This is a pretty big question. Show her how you truly feel about her and why you are asking her such a big question. Show and tell her honestly why you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Tell her the honest truth about what you love about her and what you love about being with her.

5. Ring
Try to get an idea of the kind of wedding ring she might like. Either inquire by nonchalantly mixing it into everyday conversation or a happenstance perusing of a jewelry store in passing. Her friends and family may also be a good source of advice as to her preference, but it’s really wisest not to get them too involved if they can’t keep a secret.

These are the basic essentials of a good marriage proposal. This should be enough to get you started on a magical proposal that is as romantic as can be.

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